Ep.30-Chapter 8 : Expectations kills erections and orgasms “ Becoming a better lover series”

Updated: Aug 10, 2019




Limited - Ep.30-Chapter 8 : Expectations kills erections and orgasms “ Becoming a better lover series” on My Orgasmic Life Podcast with Holistic Sexual Wellness Specialist , Gaia Morrissette


So many of my clients, friends and student are always asking me “ How do I become a better lover” Or “How can I be better in bed” so I have been inspired to create series dedicated to being better at sex… Content Warning : Swearing, Talking about Sex, Laughter, Getting Laid, Performance anxiety, ED, Erection issues, penis, vaginas and orgasms


Covering in this Chapter:


  • *What is Expectational sex?

  • *What is Explorational sex?

  • *Why Orgasm and Expectional goal driven sex kills boners

  • *Why Orgasm goal kills orgasmic release

  • * What is performance anxiety and the major reason it happens

  • * The only goal for sexy time is giving and receiving pleasure

  • * Tool: Mastering your own expectations … Ask yourself do I have goal or am I just interested in exploring pleasure with my lover? If the answer is goal .. Stop, take 3 deep breaths; with each breath on the inhale squeeze your genitals and on exhale say in your head I am only here to give and receive pleasure. Then focus on your 5 senses to come back into your body and get out of your head.

  • *Tool: How to talk to your lover about moving out of expectational sex into explorational sex. Current lover and if new lover

Seat back and get ready for a wild ride…


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